{"id":119,"date":"2004-01-29T10:23:24","date_gmt":"2004-01-29T15:23:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vmalt\/?p=119"},"modified":"2005-12-03T17:15:10","modified_gmt":"2005-12-03T22:15:10","slug":"things-i-wish-i-had-said-first","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/things-i-wish-i-had-said-first","title":{"rendered":"Things I Wish I Had Said First"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Literary theory: &#8220;Most people outgrow it when they stop feeling insecure or threatened.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.csmonitor.com\/2004\/0127\/p11s01-legn.html\">Read on<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Literary theory: &#8220;Most people outgrow it when they stop feeling insecure or threatened.&#8221; Read on.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-119","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4C7K-1V","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1484,"url":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/im-hyper-trans-post-modern","url_meta":{"origin":119,"position":0},"title":"I&#8217;m Hyper-Trans-Post-Modern","author":"Gil","date":"May 1, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"When I was an undergraduate at Hampshire (1990-1993), I didn't really understand what \"the culture wars\" were. 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