{"id":12632,"date":"2019-11-18T14:09:49","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T19:09:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/?p=12632"},"modified":"2019-11-18T14:26:44","modified_gmt":"2019-11-18T19:26:44","slug":"tom-spurgeon-bonus-episode","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/tom-spurgeon-bonus-episode","title":{"rendered":"Tom Spurgeon Bonus Episode"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/virtualmemories\/Tom_Spurgeon_Bonus_Episode.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Virtual Memories Show:<br \/>\nTom Spurgeon Bonus Episode<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><div class=\"powerpress_player\" id=\"powerpress_player_2605\"><audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-12632-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/virtualmemories\/Tom_Spurgeon_Bonus_Episode.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/virtualmemories\/Tom_Spurgeon_Bonus_Episode.mp3\">http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/virtualmemories\/Tom_Spurgeon_Bonus_Episode.mp3<\/a><\/audio><\/div><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_mp3\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/virtualmemories\/Tom_Spurgeon_Bonus_Episode.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_pinw\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Play in new window\" onclick=\"return powerpress_pinw('http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/?powerpress_pinw=12632-podcast');\" rel=\"nofollow\">Play in new window<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/virtualmemories\/Tom_Spurgeon_Bonus_Episode.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow\" download=\"Tom_Spurgeon_Bonus_Episode.mp3\">Download<\/a><\/p><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_subscribe_links\">Subscribe: <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/4itPQhel9GzH3WK2iXr4Zw\" class=\"powerpress_link_subscribe powerpress_link_subscribe_spotify\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Subscribe on Spotify\" rel=\"nofollow\">Spotify<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/tunein.com\/podcasts\/Interviews\/The-Virtual-Memories-Show-p1091071\/\" class=\"powerpress_link_subscribe powerpress_link_subscribe_tunein\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Subscribe on TuneIn\" rel=\"nofollow\">TuneIn<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/feed\/podcast\" class=\"powerpress_link_subscribe powerpress_link_subscribe_rss\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Subscribe via RSS\" rel=\"nofollow\">RSS<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/subscribe-to-podcast\" class=\"powerpress_link_subscribe powerpress_link_subscribe_more\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"More\" rel=\"nofollow\">More<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cThe danger isn\u2019t in the limits of what you can do for someone. The danger is in withdrawing, and realizing you don\u2019t have those relationships anymore. If you can be engaged in someone\u2019s life . . . that\u2019s what you have and that\u2019s what you work with.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Following the unexpected death of <a href=\"http:\/\/comicsreporter.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tom Spurgeon<\/a>, my best friend and an inveterate supporter of the show, I&#8217;ve re-posted our 2012 conversation, along with a new (and emotional) introduction. <a href=\"http:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/virtualmemories\/Tom_Spurgeon_Bonus_Episode.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Give it a listen<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cI was morphined up and looking out the back of an ambulance for about three hours. You get to see things as a beginning, middle and end. . . . My story might end in a couple of hours. What does that mean? What was that life like?\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7wg7EWmeQWY\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed-podcast\/episode\/61vlmDOPrGVoD8wzQPeoII\" width=\"100%\" height=\"232\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><iframe src=\"https:\/\/tunein.com\/embed\/player\/t135103885\/\" style=\"width:100%; height:100px;\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Lots of ways to follow <em>The Virtual Memories Show<\/em>: <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/the-virtual-memories-show\/id531173075\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">iTunes<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/4itPQhel9GzH3WK2iXr4Zw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Spotify<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/vmspod\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Twitter<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/vmspod\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Instagram<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCXoLbP-9GbhHJZpCQP5TR5A\/videos?view_as=subscriber\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">YouTube<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/tunein.com\/radio\/The-Virtual-Memories-Show-p1091071\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">TuneIn<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/virtualmemoriespodcast.tumblr.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tumblr<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/virtualmemories.libsyn.com\/rss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">RSS<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>About our Guest<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At the time of his death at the age of 50, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/comicsreporter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Tom Spurgeon<\/a> was the editor of <a href=\"http:\/\/comicsreporter.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Comics Reporter<\/a> and executive director of <a href=\"http:\/\/cartooncrossroadscolumbus.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CXC &#8211; Cartoon Crossroads Columbus<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"12635\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/tom-spurgeon-bonus-episode\/tomandmespx\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg?fit=1280%2C960\" data-orig-size=\"1280,960\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"tomandmespx\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg?fit=525%2C394\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-12635 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg?resize=525%2C394\" alt=\"\" width=\"525\" height=\"394\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg?resize=620%2C465 620w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg?resize=440%2C330 440w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg?resize=768%2C576 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg?w=1280 1280w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmespx.jpg?w=1050 1050w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 525px) 100vw, 525px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Credits: The conversation was recorded at Small Press Expo in Bethesda, MD in 2012 on a pair of&nbsp;Blue enCORE 100 Microphones feeding into a Zoom H4 digital recorder. I recorded the intro and outro on a Heil PR-40 Dynamic Studio Recording Microphone feeding into a Cloudlifter CL-1 and a Mackie Onyx Blackjack 2&#215;2 USB Recording Interface. All processing and editing done in Adobe Audition CC. Photos of me &amp; Tom by my wife. It&#8217;s on my <a href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/vmspod\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">instagram<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Virtual Memories Show: Tom Spurgeon Bonus Episode \u201cThe danger isn\u2019t in the limits of what you can do for someone. The danger is in withdrawing, and realizing you don\u2019t have those relationships anymore. If you can be engaged in someone\u2019s life . . . that\u2019s what you have and that\u2019s what you work with.\u201d Following &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/tom-spurgeon-bonus-episode\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Tom Spurgeon Bonus Episode&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12633,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"audio","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[22,27,793,26,4,1083,1183,20],"tags":[174],"class_list":["post-12632","post","type-post","status-publish","format-audio","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-art","category-big-business","category-classic-comics-criticism","category-comics","category-literature","category-movies","category-podcasts","category-religion","tag-tom-spurgeon","post_format-post-format-audio"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/wp-content\/uploads\/tomandmetcaf.jpg?fit=1000%2C665","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4C7K-3hK","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":12719,"url":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/tom-spurgeon-birthday-memorial-episode","url_meta":{"origin":12632,"position":0},"title":"Tom Spurgeon Birthday Memorial Episode","author":"Gil","date":"December 16, 2019","format":false,"excerpt":"Virtual Memories Show: Tom Spurgeon Birthday Memorial Episode \"The thing about Tom was, he wasn\u2019t necessarily interested in everything you were interested in, but he was interested in learning about WHY you were interested in it. 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