{"id":1438,"date":"2007-04-09T05:00:49","date_gmt":"2007-04-09T10:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/monday-morning-montaigne-a-consideration-upon-cicero\/"},"modified":"2007-04-09T05:01:23","modified_gmt":"2007-04-09T10:01:23","slug":"monday-morning-montaigne-a-consideration-upon-cicero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/monday-morning-montaigne-a-consideration-upon-cicero","title":{"rendered":"Monday Morning Montaigne: A Consideration Upon Cicero"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This one follows <em>Of Solitude<\/em>, which covers the best way to approach retirement. <em>Of Solitude<\/em> ends with a lengthy paraphrase of Epicurus and Seneca, meant to contrast with not-so-good advice from Pliny the Younger and Cicero. It looks like the latter felt that retirement is the time to start burnishing one&#8217;s rep through books &amp; letters, while the former figured that one had time enough for that in one&#8217;s prime. M. paraphrases<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;Seek no longer that the world should speak of you, but how you should speak to yourself. Retire into yourself, but first prepare to receive yourself there; it would be madness to trust in yourself if you do not know how to govern yourself. There are ways to fail in solitude as well as in company.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In the next essay, he writes a little more about Cicero, and the practice of publishing one&#8217;s letters. M. finds this pretty sleazy, but what I enjoyed most was his description of his own letter-writing, mainly because it sums up my own conversational style awfully well:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I have naturally a humorous and familiar style, but of a form all my own, inept for public negotiations, as my language is in every way, being too compact, disorderly, abrupt, individual; and I have no gift for letters of ceremony that have no other substance than a fine string of courteous words. I have neither the faculty nor the taste for those lengthy offers of affection and service. I do not really believe all that, and I dislike saying much of anything beyond what I believe. That is a far cry from present practice, for there never was so abject and servile a prostitution of complimentary addresses: life, soul, devotion, adoration, serf, slave, all these words have such vulgar currency that when letter writers want to convey a more sincere and respectful feeling, they have no way left to express it.<\/p>\n<p>I mortally hate to seem a flatterer; and so I naturally drop into a dry, plain, blunt way of speaking, which, to anyone who does not know me otherwise, verges a little on the disdainful. I honor most those to whom I show the least honor; and where my soul moves with great alacrity, I forget the proper steps of ceremony. I offer myself meagerly and proudly to those to whom I belong. And I tender myself least to those to whom I have given myself most; it seems to me that they should read my feelings in my heart, and see that what my words express does an injustice to my thought.<\/p>\n<p>In welcoming, in taking leave, in thanking, in greeting, in offering my services, in all those verbose compliments imposed by the ceremonial laws of our etiquette, I know no one so stupidly barren of words as myself. And I have never been made use of to write letters of favor and recommendation but that the man for whom they were written found them dry and weak.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Last week, I fussed endlessly over a recommendation letter for a member of <a href=\"http:\/\/contractpharma.com\" target=\"_blank\">my magazine&#8217;s<\/a> Editorial Advisory Board. He&#8217;s an Indian pharma-scientist, trying to get a green card so he can take a new job here in the U.S. I felt defeated by the time I was done writing it, ashamedly e-mailed the text to him, and heard back minutes later, &#8220;This is great! Thank you so much! Please put it on letterhead and send it over!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So maybe M. &amp; I just have low self-esteem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This one follows Of Solitude, which covers the best way to approach retirement. Of Solitude ends with a lengthy paraphrase of Epicurus and Seneca, meant to contrast with not-so-good advice from Pliny the Younger and Cicero. It looks like the latter felt that retirement is the time to start burnishing one&#8217;s rep through books &amp; &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/monday-morning-montaigne-a-consideration-upon-cicero\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Monday Morning Montaigne: A Consideration Upon Cicero&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[45],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1438","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-monday-morning-montaigne"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4C7K-nc","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1588,"url":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/monday-morning-montaigne-of-books","url_meta":{"origin":1438,"position":0},"title":"Monday Morning Montaigne: Of books","author":"Gil","date":"July 16, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"I'm back! 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Nyeh!) It begins\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Monday Morning Montaigne&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Monday Morning Montaigne","link":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/category\/monday-morning-montaigne"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":2891,"url":"http:\/\/chimeraobscura.com\/vm\/monday-morning-montaigne-defense-of-seneca-and-plutarch","url_meta":{"origin":1438,"position":3},"title":"Monday Morning Montaigne: Defense of Seneca and Plutarch","author":"Gil","date":"November 10, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"No rambling exegeses this week. Instead, you get a couple of passages from Montaigne. The first comes from his Defense of Seneca and Plutarch: We must not judge what is possible and what is not, according to what is credible and incredible to our sense. . . . 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